Charlotte Child Custody LAWYER

CHARLOTTE CHILD CUSTODY LAWYER REPRESENTING FAMILIES AND VISITATION RIGHTS

Helping Clients With Child Custody Matters in Cabarrus, Union, Iredell, & Mecklenburg County

Child custody decisions have changed radically in past generations. Both parents often want to be involved in the lives of the children, and it can often lead to very contentious battles between the parents where neither side wants to give.

Warren Family Law knows how emotional child custody issues can be, whether they arise during a divorce or between parents who were never married. Our child custody lawyers serving Mecklenburg County have assisted families around the Charlotte metro area with child custody issues for over 40 years.


Our Charlotte child custody lawyers are prepared to stand beside you at this challenging time. Give us a call at (704) 741-1763 or contact us online today.


Striving for the Ideal Child Custody Arrangements in Charlotte 

More studies show the importance of children spending as much time as possible with both parents.

Suppose neither parent has a history of violence, substance abuse, or other issues that would endanger the child. In that case, most Mecklenburg County family courts aim to create a balanced child custody arrangement. Ideally, you and your partner can construct such a plan independently.

An experienced Charlotte family law attorney can help you address all legal family law issues and present them to the court for approval.

Types of Custody in North Carolina

In addition to creating a fair and reasonable schedule of physical custody, you and your co-parent may agree to share the responsibilities for making important decisions for the child’s welfare, which is called legal custody. 

Some examples of those decisions include these and others:

  • Education, including whether your child will receive special education services
  • Health care, including vaccinations, medications or surgical procedures
  • Religious upbringing

Having your agreement in writing and authorized by the court is the best way to protect your parental rights. There is less chance of a misunderstanding or intentional manipulation of a verbal agreement, such as one parent suddenly moving away with the child.

With a court-approved agreement, you will have the law behind you if your co-parent fails to hold up his or her side of the child custody arrangement.

Joint Custody vs. Sole Custody

When it comes to child custody arrangements, it's important to understand the difference between joint custody and sole custody. Joint custody means both parents share legal and physical custody of the child, while sole custody means one parent has primary custody and decision-making authority.

Our experienced Charlotte child custody lawyers can help you navigate the complexities of joint custody and sole custody arrangements, and work towards the best possible solution for your family. We understand the emotional and legal challenges involved in child custody cases, and we are here to provide you with the support and guidance you need.

Factors to consider when determining custody arrangements include:

  • Each parent's ability to provide a stable and nurturing environment
  • The child's relationship with each parent
  • The child's preference (depending on age and maturity)
  • Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse

Whether you are seeking joint custody or sole custody, our dedicated Charlotte child custody lawyers are committed to advocating for your rights and the best interests of your child.

Commonly Asked Questions

What factors do courts consider when determining custody arrangements?

Courts typically consider several factors, including each parent's ability to provide a stable and nurturing environment, the child's relationship with each parent, the child's preferences (depending on age and maturity), and any history of domestic violence or substance abuse.

Can parents modify a child custody agreement after it has been established?

Yes, parents can modify a child custody agreement, but any changes must be approved by the court to ensure they are in the best interest of the child. It is recommended to document any modifications in writing.

What is the difference between legal custody and physical custody?

Legal custody refers to the right to make important decisions about a child's upbringing, such as education and healthcare, while physical custody pertains to where the child lives and the time they spend with each parent.

At what age can children express their preferences regarding custody?

In North Carolina, there is no specific age at which children can choose which parent to live with. The courts do consider the child's wishes, but ultimately the decision is made based on the best interests of the child.

What should be included in a parenting plan?

A parenting plan should include details such as parenting schedules for weekdays, weekends, and holidays, communication methods between co-parents, decision-making responsibilities regarding the child's welfare, child support agreements, and procedures for resolving disputes.

How can parents ensure their custody agreement is enforceable?

To ensure a custody agreement is enforceable, it should be documented in writing and approved by the court. This provides legal backing if one parent does not comply with the terms of the agreement.

At What Age Does a Child Have a Say in Custody in NC?

No law in NC allows children to choose which parent to live with at a certain age. So there is no difference whether your child is 7 or 16 years old. In contrast, some other states allow the child of a specific age to choose one parent over the other.

Understanding the Child Custody Process in NC

Navigating the child custody process can be overwhelming, but having a clear understanding of the steps involved can make it more manageable. At Warren Family Law, we are committed to guiding you through each stage, ensuring you feel supported and informed.

Here’s a brief overview of what to expect:

  1. Initial Consultation: We start with a one-on-one consultation to discuss your unique situation, understand your goals, and outline potential strategies.
  2. Gathering Evidence: Our team will help you compile necessary documentation and evidence that supports your case, including financial records, communication logs, and any relevant witness statements.
  3. Negotiation: We strive for amicable resolutions and will negotiate on your behalf to reach a fair custody agreement that prioritizes your child's best interests.
  4. Legal Proceedings: If negotiations do not yield a satisfactory outcome, we will represent you in court, presenting your case effectively to ensure your voice is heard.
  5. Post-Judgment Support: Our support doesn’t end with the court’s decision. We provide guidance on modifying custody arrangements as circumstances change.

Understanding these steps can empower you to make informed decisions throughout the custody process. Our experienced attorneys at Warren Family Law are here to provide you with the knowledge and support you need every step of the way.

Creating a Parenting Plan That Works for Your Family

When it comes to child custody matters, it's important to create a parenting plan that prioritizes the well-being and best interests of your children. Our experienced Charlotte child custody lawyers can help you navigate the legal process and work towards a custody arrangement that works for your family.

Key aspects of a parenting plan may include:

  • Parenting schedules for weekdays, weekends, holidays, and school breaks
  • Communication methods between co-parents
  • Decision-making responsibilities for important matters regarding the children
  • Child support agreements
  • Methods for resolving disputes or modifying the plan as needed

By working with our dedicated legal team, you can ensure that your parenting plan is comprehensive, clear, and tailored to your unique family dynamics. Contact Warren Family Law today to discuss your child custody needs and find a solution that works for you.

Contact Our Charlotte Child Custody Lawyers Today

Attorney Jim Warren will devote his personal attention to your goals and support your efforts to reach a child custody arrangement that upholds your parental rights and satisfies the laws of North Carolina.


Reaching a resolution peacefully can protect your child from the stress and emotions of a custody battle. Nevertheless, if a civil agreement is not possible, our law firm is prepared to fight for your interests in family court. Call (704) 741-1763 or use our online form for straightforward advice and compassionate guidance from our Charlotte child custody attorneys.


  • “BEST Family Law attorney, by far. I've known Mr. Warren since the mid 90's and would use no other in a Divorce situation. EXTREMELY professional and will fight for you, all the way.” - Greg H.
  • “Won my case with the upmost professionalism and toughness. I would recommend James to anyone dealing with a custody and/or child support issue. Fantastic!!!” - Mary B.
  • “Mr. Warren is an excellent attorney to have in your corner from the beginning all the way until the end of settlements. I personally had a previous subpar attorney before retaining Mr. Warren. Thankfully I retained his services.” - Joel

Talk To Us Today About What We Can Do To Help

We will be your champion, through the good times and the bad, fighting for you at each step of the process. If you would like to know more about what we can do to help you resolve your current family law concerns, please call our office today at (704) 741-1763.

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